Warning: Content may contain explicit language as I have a particular audience in mind while writing this.
More than often I'll hear a guy say "if she's not f*cking, I'm not trying to mess with her honestly." But then this same guy will turn around and demand that no guy better not even think about touching his sister and will exclaim how she is off limits. Guys like this wholeheartedly believe the women they love most are above being treated as just a quick nut, yet will use someone's sister/mother/daughter for the same exact purposes. Oddly, a lot of men think the way their mothers, sisters, and daughters should be treated is far different from the way they choose to deal with own their women.
But honestly, the standard shouldn't be compromised for either side because whether she's your mother, your sister, your daughter or your short-term entertainment there is one underlining commonality—they are all women. Women who are due the same respect not because of their relationship to you, but because of who they are to the world. If you want someone to respect yours, you are morally obligated to respect others.
Surprisingly, your intentions with women don't exist in secret isolation....it is shared by many other men. And unfortunately these shared ideas are filtered throughout the culture of our generation. The standard you set and conduct yourself by, gives tacit approval that it's okay for others to also act in the same way. If you are a ladies man who likes to explore and impulsively experience different women...fine. But accept that other men will too explore and experience women who just may be your mother, sister, or daughter and see her as just "another." Realize that not every man will see her identity as your kin or her value to be respected and treated as you would have her. But most importantly realize that for all the women you mistreat, you are fostering the very model of what a man should be to another guy who may be looking to you. As all these ideas, practices, and behaviors are passed on religiously and are deeply ingrained, rest assured that it will find its way to the women you care about. Guys like to bury their guilt and think well that wouldn't happen to my sister/daughter/mother because I'd teach them the game and protect them. But after while, that comfort becomes invalid because every woman has a weakness. Eventually she will yearn to be loved even if it means sorting through men like you. You cannot protect them however.
Ultimately, your daughters do not matter because there is an ongoing culture that disregards women for their intrinsic worth. And what you put out in the universe, consider it to be already done back to you and those you love. How you've treated someone else's daughter is a self-refueling example of how you want someone to treat yours, and I just have one question for you...are you okay with that?
Are you okay with a man wanting to f*ck your cousin and then kicking her to the door the next morning? Are you okay with your daughter being told to suck a d*ck once she declines to give out her number? Would you honestly be okay with your sisters nudes being passed around if she shared them with a guy in confidence? Would be you alright with your mother being manipulated and played while she was in search for love and led to believe she was in safe hands?
If not, change how YOU treat women.
"They say the coolest playas and foulest heart breakers in the world, God get’s us back, he makes us have precious little girls"-Nas
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