You're the Perfect Girl, But...

By: Lanisha Porter
May, 2015

Rise to the occasion               
           
 “You’re the perfect girl for me but”…. translated this means: “I’m not disciplined enough to commit.”  I don’t think men understand how much of an insult it is to tell a woman that. It sounds like a polite suggestion that she is lacking in something when all in all it is them who is lacking in something—discipline. You can dress it up as beautifully as you’d like but it’s still complete bullshit. Here’s why—I understand that men love to conquer; they crave power and they do not admit to defeat. A microcosm of history shows that for men to give in it takes about two atomic bombs and 130,000 casualties, and then they will surrender to their weaknesses. I know that men are fighters.

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